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29 November 2011

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Paul - Our thoughts might be a bit nostalgic but they are an attempt to show the gulf between the two worlds: our realities on the ground and what we are being forced to accept as the norm.

I think the journey for us is still too long and treacherous and we don’t want to be caught in some of the pitfalls as described in this article by unnecessarily leaping too high.

It’s about setting a bar that is appropriate for us: a bar that mirrors our ability to leap high enough without permanently damaging our hamstrings. We must learn to crawl, walk and run properly before trying to leap.

Mi ting yu bai inap long kisim displa liklik tok piksa.

Gentlemen - I hate to disillusion you but you are not alone in your heartfelt desires to return to a more simpler life. Is it possible however?

I too remember my youth and where my family came from. A rural life and in those now seemingly halcyon days, we all grew our own vegetables and had chickens and animals etc.

After a working life away from these memories I sought to introduce these wonderful concepts to my children.

Alas, the hard, physical work of looking after animals and digging the garden was not their cup of tea and to be fair, why should it be since they should be allowed to choose what life they want.

And then there were the marvels of a weekend Scout camp with 50 of more Scouts and sitting around the camp fire.

These were ‘Great’ as long as they could return to Mum on Sunday night and get your washing done and your dinner served up for you and turn on the television and the computer.

Blow the poor Scout Leader who was exhausted and had to go the work the next day.

And if perchance you miss your cultural ties, these too have changed or disappeared and our young people see things through different eyes.

But don’t despair. One of these days you may be lucky enough to be able to bounce your grandchild on your knee and say ‘I remember when…’ and see the wonder in their eyes.

Excellent discussion! If I asked my coastal people of Melkoi LLG Area in the Pomio District, ENBP, that question they would answer with a variety responses: trade store, education, health, roads etc.

But this only begs the same question for more clarification: What for do you say development is trade store, education, health, roads etc?

And out of exasperation, they would say to live a life like the "waitman".

This mentality has its own stubbornness and fixations that can be difficult to change if the development agent has a different approach to development.

I guess, that is how our people especially in the rural areas have been forced to think of development by ommission and neglect of the powers to be to-date! I think!

An excellent piece and a timely reminder to us here in PNG. Indeed we must ask ourselves what development really means.

I’ve always yearned to go back to the model I grew up participating in. A simple model that blended traditional existence with an ability to earn just enough money to pay for necessities such as clothes, certain store foods such as salt, school fees, medical supplies etc.

It seemed to work well then and I had the time of my life growing up in the village. I have a lot of scars on my body to show for the many mischief me and my friends would get up to in the village. But I couldn’t have had it any other way.

Unfortunately I can’t give my daughter the same experiences now even if I were to take her back to the same village that I grew up in: same bushes, same rivers, same mud and games but with a totally different set of expectations.

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